Marriage First Coaching

Heal your marriage, permanently 

We get it.
We understand where you are. We have felt pains similar to what you are experiencing. We have wondered, "What's the point of all this?"  We also understand what it is like to truly go all in and feel the healing power that only a marriage can bring. Join us, put your Marriage First and realize the potential you know you have. 

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You're tired of the communication problems, of the same fights, of the unresolved conflicts, of the lack of intimacy. 

we get it...

You have reached out to others for guidance, seeking ways to improve your situation. Despite their well-intentioned advice, you have found that nothing seems to work. The problems persist and the same challenges keep coming up. You are feeling frustrated and overwhelmed, as if you've tried everything but nothing seems to bring relief.



The constant communication difficulties, repetitive arguments, unresolved issues, and absence of intimacy have left you feeling exhausted.



Our goal is to help couples like you navigate the challenges of marriage and find the same healing that we have achieved in our own marriage. We understand that every relationship is unique and we strive to provide personalized guidance and resources to help you improve communication, resolve conflicts, and deepen your connection. We believe that every marriage has the potential to be strong and fulfilling, and our mission is to help you get there.

This is where Marriage First steps in.

3 ways marriage first is different... 

We create a safe and supportive environment where couples can openly express their thoughts and feelings. We foster emotional connection by encouraging open communication, active listening, and empathy.

we focus on emotional connection and safety

We help couples understand how past experiences and relationships affects their current patterns of attachment in the marriage.

We help couples understand the underlying issues affecting their relationship and work towards healing and growth.

we focus on deep wounds

we focus on attachment styles

Results our clients see...

Enhanced Emotional Intimacy: Work on building a deeper emotional connection with each other to increase intimacy and trust.

Increased Self-Awareness: Gain a deeper understanding of how one another's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors impact the marriage.

Improved Communication: Learn how to effectively communicate with each other, reduce misunderstandings and limit conflict intensity.

Healing from Trauma: Clients who have experienced trauma will receive support in processing and healing from their experiences.

"10/10 times I recommend!" 

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For instance, someone with an avoidant  attachment fears emotional closeness and is usually uncomfortable with deep emotional connections, or other sharing how they feel. This can lead them to become defensive and avoid confrontation and deep relationships. However, a person with an anxious attachment style may feel they are not enough for their partner, which can lead to poor self-confidence, lack of sense of self, not feeling understood, and loneliness within the relationship. Some of these traits you've probably heard labeled as "people-pleasing".



why we focus on attachment style

Knowing your attachment style is like peering into a window that shows you how you give love, and how you like to receive love. It's a great indicator as to why certain things can hurt you so deeply.

Join Us - and learn the tools to break the cycle!

If these two styles are together they will show love and want to receive love very differently.  

3 Month all-in couples coaching

Coaching calls with Doug happen over Google Meet. Each call is 50 minutes. We recommend weekly or bi-weekly calls. 

What's Included

+ 6 hour-long coaching sessions over the 12 weeks.

+ Worksheets for continued connection and discussion in-between session 

+ An Attachment Style Assessment for you and your spouse 

+ Customized coaching tailored to your unique personalities and circumstances 

+ Voxer Coaching for regular check-ins about specific questions and concerns 

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+ Lifetime access to our "Get to the Roots" marriage course

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how can we help? 

Please let us know if you have any questions and we will do our best to get back to you as soon as possible. 

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